Monday, October 20, 2014

I'm Just... Dead 10/20/14

Have you ever felt dead?  Not physically, but on a soul level -- fried crispy, stick a fork in her she's done, kind of dead?

I'm so there right now.

Oh, so very... dead.

I guess I'm not totally dead.  Dead things don't feel and I feel.  I feel like my soul is being sucked inside itself and crushed -- forceful implosion causing tremendous discomfort.  I don't mean to sound dramatic, but my heart just hurts right now.  An "I haaaaaaaaaaaate life" kind of hurt.

I feel caught and dreadfully hung in such a cramped place.  I've been here for months and months and months.  No change.  No rescue.  No answer.  Just the vice grip of imposed expectations, inherited responsibilities and a total disregard for my interests and needs.

Finally, today, taking things into my own hands to liberate myself from this life draining snare, I have made matters worse--dumbfounded and poked the bear--and now I am more confused and more stuck than before.  Lost.  Who am I?  What is this all for?

Additionally, a predator from my past approached me today to ask me to give more of myself for his gain.  He's a striver, a presser, a producer, a slave driver who does not hear "no."  He leads me into sickness not health, death not life and sorrow not joy.  I don't want my "no" to fall on deaf ears again.  I don't want to think about this.

I don't want to think about any of it.  But, the crushing responsibilities still hang about my neck like a fat, rusty, scraping chain, weighing me down -- lower and lower and lower, making me forget freedom, making me cringe at the light, craning my head to only see dust.  My mind is bound in a tangle of requests, unfinished tasks, mocking messes, unanswered demands, the "give me's" of oblivious, self-absorbed children, the mercenary requests of the smiling majority.  My only refuge tonight is sleep.

I hate life today.  Haaaaaaaaaaaate it.





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